have been trying so hard ..what will you do

[revealmythought]

Hello...

I would like to hear opinions from you about this question i have been thinking about.. what will you do after you tried to understand the people around you so hard, especially understanding the people whom you closely know, but, in the end, you feel disappointed with their actions, thinking and attitude and even outcome?

no matter what i do, usually positive things, in the end, i am the one who will always be disappointed.

[Andrew97]

Can you give a specific situation example?

[MrCawfle]

The answer is clear. People are irrational 95% of the time. I hate to be so abrupt and tell you the secret of life but it's true. Your task is to work it backwards and find out why. I suppose that Hitler and McVeigh never worked it back. Concentrate on your breathing, be totally aware of your surroundings and really see what people do.

I'll give you a hint as to the secret, people love to move furniture around all day long. It's your job to find out why. I'm in the same boat as you. The people at my job chase their tails all day long (I work at a prison). Can't they just calm down for 15 minutes?

If you're lucky, you'll live 99 years and on your deathbed you'll understand people. Then...please tell me!