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hey ive been dating for a while now and im thinking now how can someone like me have a girlfriend and if i even really want one. First off having a gf means commitment where ive never met a person i want to talk to every day. Even my best friends i only want to see and talk to once in a while when i get into a social mood and the couple friends that i do have is very small because it is extremely rare for me to find someone i connect with. I hatteee talking on the phone so i never feel like i want to talk to the girl, more like a need ok its the thing u need to do to keep it going.....And then i go on dates and i just feel energy drained, bored, no connection... and just want to leave so i always usually end it after the first date. I simply dont enjoy talking and prefer almost always being alone. I think part of me is just dating because of the social conditioning to whats normal(relationship/mariiage/kids) , sexual drive/need, and the human need of love(ive never really loved a person). but I simply dont enjoy talking and prefer almost always being alone, i only feel at peace when im alone, with animals, or making music..So how can a relationship for me even work without me acting like someone im not?
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